Here are some dont’s to help you solve the mental obstacles:
1.Don’t wait until the situation is perfect.
You should not wait until the situation is perfect because the situation will never be perfect. No matter how or when you see it, there will always be something that make you think again.
2.Don’t wait until other people agree with you.
Just like you shouldn’t wait for the situation to be perfect, you shouldn’t wait until everybody agrees with your idea. There will always be opposition, and that is perfectly normal. If you wait until there is a consensus, you will never start.
3.Don’t wait until your skill is good.
We might think that we need to have good skill before we start doing something. But the truth is, you will learn much more by doing than by waiting. Doing allows you to hone your skill much faster than just learning the theory.
And so we decided a year ago to have a WEDSTIVAL type of wedding. Something that we haven’t experience before. Something that everyone thought it’s impossible to achieve when you don’t have millions to spend for a wedding. But we took the first step. The planning and execution wasn’t easy at all. We we’re questioned by many people why we took the difficult way of doing things. But we did it anyway. And there’s a lesson behind doing such thing – it’s because we want to achieve a DREAM- and MAKE it HAPPEN. We also want to inspire and teach our families and friends that dreams can become a reality if we’ll plan and work hard enough to get it. 10 days to go and what ever happens- we know that things will just be perfect for us…..To all our families and friends- we can’t wait to see you very soon and share a super fun 4 days with you no matter what. …I’ll be expressing my gratitude in Coron.
(written few days before our wedding in Coron on October 2014)